A couple years ago before I started dating Ryan, I knew this guy who was a mutaul friend of our friends in Los Angeles. He and his roommates were a lot older than us, but we enjoyed hanging out with them when they’d have us over. I formed a closer friendship with one of them, the youngest, who at the time was was 32 while I was 18. We maintained a rocky friendship for two more years, often fighting over what I’m certain of now are serious character flaws and an underlying personality or mood disorder. It got so bad, he confessed that he was in love with me and pressured me to come stay in CA with him for a summer to read and mediate. I was scared but didn’t want to anger him so I kept answering his calls and texts while keeping at arms length.
We had one final dispute summer of 2011 and then never spoke again. he blocked me from every sort of social network site and I never heard from him. Up until this past april. he tried contacting me, leaving me messages under a fake name like, ‘don’t receive friend invites you can’t handle…Oaxaca. Take care. -’ Like wtf?! thats fucking scary! I was living in LA at the time and was half afraid he was looking for me and at that time it severely bothered me.
Two days ago I receive a friend request on fb from his brother, his brother’s fake account, his fake account, an email with no attachments or words and a youtube comment that turned out to be some really lame empire of the sun song. I don’t know if it’s a big deal or not but I’m freaking the fuck out over this! He has a bad temper, mentally unhinged, obviously pedophilliac tendencies, and potentially violent. I sent him this message.
"You need to respectfully maintain your distance from my life and leave me alone. Your presence, name, anything etc. after so long of not speaking to each other is nothing short of disturbing. I do not want your friendship, guidance, counseling, attention! I never want to see or hear from you again. You’re a poisonous force only capable of enchanting for a short while, continually leaving a bad taste in my mouth. Using your advice and interest in me when I was clearly very very young to sway me into a direction I shudder if not vomit at the thought of. You’ve forever besmirched any innocent memory I ever had of you. Do not send me anymore friend requests, youtube, etc. Do not bother responding either."
All he said was, “god bless you Marina.”
I am having so much diarrhea over this.